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Why can't the eggshell be smashed? Why can't we pull the seedlings? Because this will destroy the law of nature, it will only make the chicken die, and the seedlings will wither. This is known to everyone.
But why does it change when you put it on your child? Running away, this behavior that does not follow the rules, has become a beautiful talk about everyone.
Don't forget, the referee's gun didn't go off when you rushed. Once ringing, it will scare the runner's courage.
9-year-old prodigy shocks 'youngest college graduate' failure
What were we doing when we were 9 years old? I don't know how everyone is, anyway, I'm playing mud. But Lauren Simmons in the Netherlands is very different. When he was nine, he was about to become "the youngest college graduate in history."
What kind of resume would such a child prodigy have? Let's take a look:
I started elementary school when I was 4 years old, and it took me a year and a half to finish all the primary school courses.
Skip junior high school, go directly to high school at the age of 6, and spend a year and a half to graduate.
He went to college at the age of 8 and completed all courses in the Department of Electrical Engineering in 9 months.
In our impression, many prodigies are a bit weird. Everyone says that people with high IQs are either prodigies or lunatics. There is often only a slight difference between them, but Lauren looks different. He has a wide range of hobbies and personalities. Cheerful and lively, good at talking with people, like diving.
His life seems to be similar to our childhood, but there are essential differences. His parents wanted him to graduate by December 26, 2019 so that he could break the Guinness Book of World Records , but at this very critical moment Lauren was forced to drop out of school.
It turned out that when parents thought he could graduate successfully, the official came out to rumor it. University officials said that Lauren still needs to pass a lot of exams before graduating , and the earliest will not be until mid-2020.
As a result, Lauren was delayed from becoming the youngest college graduate. Parents became furious when they knew. Thinks the school is deliberately procrastinating, so it triggers a war ...
After that, Lauren's parents also acknowledged in an interview with reporters that there was an element of deliberate speculation , and the reason why they chose to send Lauren to Eindhoven University of Technology at that time was because the university promised to set up a special group to let Law Lun obtained a college graduation certificate within 10 months. They just got together for the sake of mutual achievement.
Sometimes I think, is it a good thing to let the children finish their studies ahead of time, or to let the children come in contact with things that should not have been touched at this age in advance? What does it mean to run away?
What does it mean for a child to run away?
Running away means that the child will lose the current happiness. For example, suppose that the child has completed the junior high school course when he was eight years old. Then we can imagine that the other people completed the education in nine years Assault completed within time, apart from his talents, what else can't be ignored?
It's time! The child's time has been greatly compressed. The nine years of knowledge have been compressed and instilled into the child. How long does it take for the child to accept?
Some people say that genius is not the case. We can not imagine the world of genius, but we can know the world of children. This prodigy, maybe he spends 20 hours in studying every day, it will inevitably make him lose rest time and play time . For children, playing is nature, and the elimination of nature violates the laws of nature. Such a prodigy, Really happy?
A well-known American psychologist once conducted an experiment. He selected 1,200 prodigies with IQs over 140 and investigated them. He found that none of them changed the world. We can not say that they are useless to society, but not following the laws of nature will make this blessing of God's fortune become a nightmare.
We all know that we can't pull up seedlings to help, but when things happen to ourselves, some people rely on this blessing of God to do nothing.
Parents want their children to be successful. Is it wrong?
It is normal for parents to want their children to achieve something. All parents want their children to be successful, but why should he fold his wings?
There is a completely different concept of upward pursuit and running away. So as parents, how can we make our children better?
In fact, children themselves are the best works of nature, and health and peace are the best expectations. For their future, parents want their children to be outstanding, which is understandable, but it is often more important to consider their feelings.
When you blindly ask him to do something, it often becomes coercion. What is not done voluntarily, how can it be done well?
If you want your child to be excellent, you need to teach yourself. The word I use here is "叨叨" rather than preaching. Because from your child's point of view, you are well-intentioned to preach, if the method is not right, it is really just a puppet.
Almost all parenting articles mention "parents are the best teachers for their children", but no one can really do this. How can we set an example for our children? In fact, it is very simple. What kind of person do you want your child to become?
If you want your child to be industrious and courageous, then you must not be afraid of difficulties and be diligent. If you want your child to be honest and trustworthy, then you must start with small things and not forget every promise.
To make a child outstanding, you must first understand what your purpose is. If you are only for your vanity, then your child is sad .
As stated in an article, if parents do not change their attitudes towards their children, life and the future will teach you to be a person.
If your goal is only to make it easier for your child to gain a foothold in the future, then do n’t use too much force. In fact, it is not easy to stand on, how to maintain this glory after standing is more difficult!
No one can escape the drive of interest, but the child is still young, let him stay away from it for the time being.
I'm a candy mom, a senior babysitter, a senior family education instructor, and a four-year-old mother. If you have any questions about parenting or family education, you can leave me a message ~ Back to Sohu, see more